Comments on: Another Personal Update http://www.inadequate.net/2007/07/11/another-personal-update/ A few thoughts. Sat, 22 Nov 2008 04:58:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5 By: deb http://www.inadequate.net/2007/07/11/another-personal-update/#comment-1777 deb Thu, 12 Jul 2007 17:40:58 +0000 http://www.inadequate.net/2007/07/11/another-personal-update/#comment-1777 The trouble with innocent bystanders is that they are always missing huge chunks of the story. It's like watching a movie without sound; or hearing the movie without picture. 50% of the detail just isn't there. The trouble with innocent bystanders is that they are always missing huge chunks of the story. It’s like watching a movie without sound; or hearing the movie without picture. 50% of the detail just isn’t there.

]]> By: admin http://www.inadequate.net/2007/07/11/another-personal-update/#comment-1776 admin Thu, 12 Jul 2007 17:28:53 +0000 http://www.inadequate.net/2007/07/11/another-personal-update/#comment-1776 I won't argue with your other points because they're correct. I acknowledge I fucked up. But as for the blog thing, she has a blog as well in which she posts these personal items -- and I had her read mine last night. I won’t argue with your other points because they’re correct. I acknowledge I fucked up.

But as for the blog thing, she has a blog as well in which she posts these personal items — and I had her read mine last night.

]]> By: Innocent Bystander http://www.inadequate.net/2007/07/11/another-personal-update/#comment-1775 Innocent Bystander Thu, 12 Jul 2007 17:24:48 +0000 http://www.inadequate.net/2007/07/11/another-personal-update/#comment-1775 I find it interesting that you feel entitled to violate your ex's privacy, and make hasty judgements about someone who you casually discarded. This person who you were careful enough to keep anonymous, whom you call "friend," is just trying to be nice to you. But, I will say what this "friend" means, you are selfish. First and foremost, you cheated on your ex. Then, when you decided you wanted what you couldn't have and she had moved on, you felt justified in playing the role of the victim and feel that you have the right to display very personal and intimate things in a public blog. Unfortunately, you are not considerate of your ex at all, and you seem to have no accountability for what you are doing to her. You have poor form and poor taste. You need to grow up. I find it interesting that you feel entitled to violate your ex’s privacy, and make hasty judgements about someone who you casually discarded. This person who you were careful enough to keep anonymous, whom you call “friend,” is just trying to be nice to you. But, I will say what this “friend” means, you are selfish. First and foremost, you cheated on your ex. Then, when you decided you wanted what you couldn’t have and she had moved on, you felt justified in playing the role of the victim and feel that you have the right to display very personal and intimate things in a public blog. Unfortunately, you are not considerate of your ex at all, and you seem to have no accountability for what you are doing to her. You have poor form and poor taste. You need to grow up.

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